Congratulations, Graduates! Greet the World with Open Arms

During the commencement ceremonies today at Virginia Tech, a big piece of my heart will walk across that stage. In addition to the all the Hokies I've advised on job searches, graduate school applications, or career decisions, my daughter, Maggie, will be one of the new graduates joining them, awarded her bachelor's degree. Since I'm an advisor, you know I have a lot of advice to give to all you new graduates, especially when my own daughter is involved. For now, I'm focusing on four pieces of advice with a photo of Maggie as our guide reminding us to greet the world with open arms.

Open your arms to purpose. You've spent several years here learning not just in the classroom. You've also learned just what it means to be a Hokie. A big part of that is living up to our motto, "Ut Prosim, That I May Serve." How will YOU serve others? Making that kind of purpose a key part of your life will give you a better life. Figure out your purpose and go make the world a better place.

Open your arms to people. Another part of being a Hokie is adherence to the Principles of Community where we welcome all into our community. As you move on, how can you carry those principles with you? Embrace people different from you. Listen to what they have to say. Build bridges to bring those of us who are different together, rather than living an insular life only with those who look just like you. Make an effort to put yourself in situations where you are around people who are different...that's where you continue to learn.

Open your arms to places. Having a global perspective opens your eyes to different cultures and beliefs, giving you a broader view as you make decisions. Take advantage of opportunities to travel or live in different countries. Such experiences will reward you with a more enlightened view of and appreciation for this world and its people.

Open your arms to possibilities. Change impossible to I M POSSIBLE. Deciding on saying yes to an offer that's not your dream job? Consider the possibilities. What could that position lead to? My first job as a credit clerk was far from what I dreamed I would be doing, but that position lead me to a bank management position, by giving me a strong understanding of what is involved in loan approval, a view of what it means to work as a team, and an experience to build my customer service skills even more. And if you're still looking for a job or trying to figure out your next steps, ask for help. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength that you're smart enough to use available resources and to know you don't have all the answers.

The world awaits. Open your arms to all it offers.

Congratulations, Maggie, and the rest of you Hokie Grads!