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Sunday, July 27, 2014

I'm down with that! Are you REALLY?!


Commitment. 

Webster's Dictionary defines the word this way:

com·mit·ment

noun \kə-ˈmit-mənt\
: a promise to do or give something
: a promise to be loyal to someone or something
: the attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something

In today's fast paced world, jumping to say YES, can be a mistake.


Lately, I've seen a bunch of examples where people don't honor their commitments (these aren't their real names, but each of these situations really happened):

  • There was Brittany, who backed out of the lease she signed for the coming year with several other roommates.And then, after she backed out and a new roommate was found, the new roommate, Amber, followed suit.
  • How about Brandon who backed out of the offer he accepted for a full-time job with his second choice employer to go work for his first choice employer whose offer came much later, after he had said yes to the first offer? That's called reneging on an offer, and it's viewed as an unprofessional and unethical practice that is frowned on in the world of work.
  • Or, there are Jordan and Taylor who were serving as committee chairs for state and regional professional organizations where they asked to get out of their critical leadership positions after a few months. Meanwhile, leaders of those groups had to twist arms to try and fill the holes that Jordan and Taylor left.
  • And, I'm sure you know someone like Lauren or Matthew who didn't pull through with what they said they would do when they worked on a group project.
Sound familiar? To avoid this...

Think before you say YES or before you back out after saying YES.

When you commit, you are making a promise. What does that mean? You are saying that you definitely are going to do something. Not sure it's definite? Then don't make the promise. Giving someone your word and then backing out breaks your trust with people. Trust is critical to successful relationships whether it's with a colleague at work, a friend or a significant other.

Look beyond YOU. Backing out of a commitment is impactful. Brittany and Amber caused a lot of angst for students new to living off campus and dealing with leases. Brandon's renege on his offer makes more than him look bad. Many employers refrain from hiring Hokies after one, yes, just one, student reneges. And, when Jordan and Taylor dropped out of their roles, it took a lot of conversations and adjustments before new officers were found. You create a bunch more work for others when you don't stick to your word. It's better to just say no in the first place. When you back out of a commitment, you definitely leave your mark, and it's not in a good way.

Don't say yes too soon.  Do research. Weigh pros and cons of the promise you are about to make. Think through future commitments that you might have that could make you say no to this current possibility. If you're considering a job offer, if you're not prepared to say YES because you're still waiting to hear from other employers, then don't accept the offer yet. Ask for an extension. If that's not possible, then perhaps you should decline the first offer you get. After all, "The first thing isn't the right thing," a True Rule author Gretchen Rubin shared in The Happiness Project, that was her husband, Jamie's rule.  I know that was true for me with my first job offer after I graduated with my master's degree, and I turned it down. The right job was the next offer that came along a month later. 

I know sometimes we have to break commitments due to unforeseen circumstances and emergencies. But,

The next time before you say YES, make sure you're in...ALL IN!

Commitment is a big part of what I am and what I believe. How committed are you to winning? How committed are you to being a good friend? To being trustworthy? To being successful? How committed are you to being a good father, a good teammate, a good role model? There's that moment every morning when you look in the mirror: Are you committed, or are you not?

LeBron James

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Smith Career Center is 10 Years Old, so here are 10 Reasons to Come See Us!



In June 2014, we celebrated the Tenth Anniversary of our move to the Smith Career Center. As we begin our next decade here, consider these 10 reasons why you should darken our doors or use our resources.

10. You think you are in the wrong major. Ways we can help following our Career Decision Making Model:
· Self Assessment: learning more about yourself: talents, personality, interests, skills, and values
· Research: learning more about academic and/or career options (see links below)
· Decision: make a systematic decision
· Experience and Evaluate: GET OUT THERE and determine if you are making the right decision (see links below)
How to get started? Call 540-231-6241 to meet with an advisor.




9. You want to find out about careers for civil engineers. Come see us. Some sites to visit:
· Departmental Career Advisors                    
· LinkedIn.com: click on Connections, Find Alumni, to see where VT alumni in certain fields are working




8. Planning for medical school? Do you have a parallel plan yet? 
· Meeting with a career advisor: call 540-231-6241


7. You want a summer position at Google. We can work with you to set up a plan to find the experience you seek. Check out these resources:
· Career Shift: Find listings for what you want, where you want. And, find contacts.
· Going Global: Over 40 US CITY GUIDES!
· Connection job fair: http://www.career.vt.edu/CONNECTION/Welcome.html
· Links to internship sites




6. A part-time job is a must. There are a number of local job resources:
· Local employment resources
· Jobs on campus: check out the Library, Dining Services, Student Calling Center, Recreational Sports, The Inn at Virginia Tech


5. A resume and cover letter are needed for a class assignment, an application for an honor organization or for consideration as a Resident Advisor, Orientation Leader or other opportunity.
· A hard copy of our Career Planning Guide is available in our office or electronically online           
· career.vt.edu 
· Walk-In Advising: M-F, 12 noon – 3pm
· Appointment with Career Advisor: call 540-231-6241



4. You want to work in Charlotte. See a Career Advisor for more ideas.
· Hokies4Hire for job listings
· Alumni Chapter Contacts
· Career Shift: Target listings for Charlotte and find Charlotte contacts.
· Going Global: US CITY GUIDE FOR CHARLOTTE
· Links to job listing sites by career field


3. Writing the personal statement for graduate school is a challenge. Our Career Advisors can critique your rough draft as well as the Writing Center
•Walk-In Advising: M-F, 12 noon – 3pm
•Appointment with an advisor: call 540-231-6241
Career Resource Library                                                                        



2. You need to practice interviewing.
•Meet with an advisor: call 540-231-6241
A hard copy of our Career Planning Guide is available in our office or electronically online
•Information on Career Services web site

And, the #1 Reason to visit us in Smith Career Center:

We’re friendly. We care.


It’s not about the job. It’s about the journey. 
Let us help you get started!

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Welcome Students and Families! 5 Tips for New Hokies + 5 more from a Hokie Parent


Just four years ago, my son, Preston, and I sat where you are sitting now for New Student Orientation. And, then the next July, my daughter, Maggie, and I had the same experience. As you are bombarded with all kinds of information and a multitude of considerations as you pick classes, here are a few tips for your first year as a student and more tips for your first year as a Hokie parent.

Advice from a Hokie (Maggie)

Learn the BT (bus) schedule. This campus is so spread out, and when the weather is bad, it helps to know the schedule, especially if you're stuck at the Math Emporium.

Read your email. You'll probably hear this when you meet with your college or department, and it's really true. Email is the main way people on this campus, like faculty and other VT staff, share information.



Study abroad if you get the chance. You'll make new friends, learn about other cultures and change your view of the world. Find out more here

Join a club or some sort of organization to get to know people. Gobbler Connect is your link to over 1000 student organizations. 



Get to know your professors and get involved in your academic department. Then, when you have questions, want help, or need a recommendation, you know where to go and who to visit.


Advice from a Hokie Parent (me)

Buy textbooks online if you can. You will save quite a bit with online purchases.


The most expensive dining plan is probably not necessary. At least, that has been the case for many of the Hokies I know. Dining Services has created an interactive program to help your student and you figure out the best plan.

There are all kinds of resources to help your student...she/he just needs to seek them out. Academic Difficulties? Check out The Student Success Center. Roommate issues? A Resident Advisor is a good starting point. Does your student need someone to be an advocate for her/him? The Dean of Students office has trained professionals to assist. And if your student feels like he/she is in the wrong major, our Career Advisors can help students determine a different path to take.



Encourage your student to find his/her niche. This campus is SO large; it's helpful for students to find a group to be a part of. If your student played sports in high school, maybe it's a Club Sport. There are hundreds of student organizations your student can check out at the organizations fair called GobblerFest early in the fall semester. If your student wants to give back, VT Engage is a great place to start.

Taking a break from school might be just what your student needs. You've probably heard during Orientation that every student who enters Virginia Tech was a strong academic performer in high school. However, once they get here, some students falter during their first year. If your student is one of those, taking a break might be just the right choice. After your student takes a semester or two off, he/she doesn't need to reapply; check with an academic advisor about the logistics.




Come for a visit in the fall and spring. An avid Hokie sports fan (especially college football and basketball), I highly recommend that you experience at least one game while you have a student here at Virginia Tech. If you enjoy the outdoors, there are great places to hike nearby. This campus is so pretty in the fall or spring, Family Weekend is a perfect time for you to experience it.

What questions do you have? We would be glad to help if we can, or refer you to someone else on campus who can assist you.

Best wishes with your transition to Virginia Tech and to being a Hokie Parent!


GO HOKIES! A Big HOKIE HI to all of you! 
Welcome to the Hokie Nation!




Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Independence Day: Celebrate your FREEDOM to be a Hokie!








Free to be you. Are you true to yourself? Do you know who you are? If you need some help figuring yourself out, Career Services can help. Learn about your top five talents that you can build into strengths, your personality type, your key interests, values or skills. Career Advisors are available to help you discover more about yourself. Ready to get started? Call 540-231-6241 to meet with a Career Advisor.

Research paths you might take. What are your plans for the journey to your career? Do you want to investigate various careers? Check out Candid Career via our web site. Look up alumni on LinkedIn. See job titles and employers of VT grads in the Post-Graduation Report. Still want more information? Come see us in Career Services.


Experience. Get as much as you can. While you’re working on your degree, make gaining experience a part of your education. How can you obtain experience? Internships, Job Shadowing, Cooperative Education, Undergraduate Research, Leadership Positions, and more! Our Career Advisors can help you map out your plan for experience.


Engage with the environment. This campus is in a beautiful part of the world. Do you get outside to enjoy it? Go for a bike ride on the Huckleberry Trail. Take a hike to the top of Buffalo Mountain. Go cool off at the bottom of the waterfall at the Cascades. Soak up all that nature has to offer while you’re here.



Drive. Do you have it? What goals have you set for this summer? How about for this coming academic year? What about after you graduate? Career Advisors can help you work on SMART goals to make you stretch to reach your career goals.




Open yourself up to try new things. Commit to unwavering curiosity, as we in the Division of Student Affairs aspire for you to do. Study or travel abroad to explore new cultures. If that doesn’t fit with your plans, support the Cranwell International Center as a volunteer. I’ve met so many people from all over the world in English Conversation Groups at Cranwell. 



Make Ut Prosim a motto for life. That I May Serve is a tenet to embrace while you’re a student and after you graduate. What are you doing to serve as a student? Opportunities abound: The Big Event, Relay for Life, an Alternative Spring Break, and VT Engage, to name a few. Take time to give back. 







Thank you to the many who serve in the Armed Forces or have served to maintain the freedoms we possess in the USA. Happy Fourth of July!


"For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others." Nelson Mandela